Grooms’ Guide to Guy Stuff: A No-Fluff Look at Your Side of the Aisle

Let’s be real: wedding planning can feel like a pastel avalanche of seating charts, cake tastings, and flower talk. And while we love a beautiful bouquet as much as the next person, this one’s for the guys.

Whether you're hands-on, happily delegating, or somewhere in between — this is your guide to the fun, the useful, and the downright cool parts of getting hitched. No tulle required.

Style That Feels Like You

Forget the idea that your only option is a rented tux from the 90s. Today’s groom has plenty of options:

• Custom suits (tailored to your body and style)

• Casual-cool looks (linen, suspenders, boots)

• Color (navy, burgundy, emerald...whatever matches your vibe)

And don’t forget the details: cufflinks, socks, watches, and pocket squares let your personality peek through. We’ve seen superhero socks, heirloom pins, and even fishing lures used as boutonnieres. It’s your look. Own it. Check out local attire vendors like VIP Formalwear or English's Bridal & Formalwear for the latest trends.

Same suit, different story — showcase your unique vibe by getting personal in your style game.

Bachelor Party, But Make It Memorable

Vegas isn’t the only answer. Want a low-key weekend with your posse:

• A golf trip to Pinehurst Resort or a brewery tour at Red Oak Brewery

• A weekend guys getaway at High Hampton Resort in Cashiers, NC

• Game night + cigar lounge + whiskey tasting at Capone's Bar in Robert Hall

• Take a dance class at Real World Ballroom and surprise everyone on the big day with your moves

Your bachelor party should be about connection, not chaos. No regrets, just good times.

Planning Stuff You Might Actually Care About

No shame if linens and calligraphy aren’t your thing. But here’s where you can shine:

• Music: Create the must-play and don’t-play list

• Bar & Beverages: Craft beer flight? Bourbon station? Yes, please!

• Food: Want tacos? BBQ? Late-night pizza? Put your stamp on it.

• Gifts for your crew: Custom flasks, engraved knives, cool socks, or something meaningful

• The Ride: Classic car? Motorcycle? Tractor? You wouldn’t be the first.

Vows, Toasts & All That Sentimental Stuff

Even the chillest guy gets butterflies about saying the right thing. You don’t need to be a poet...you just need to be real.

A few tips:

• Speak from the heart

• Keep it short

• Don’t wing it (a few notes help)

• Practice once or twice — not in front of your buddies at 2 AM

The Party Is Yours, Too

Don't let anyone tell you the wedding isn’t also about you. Your style, your humor, your friendships, and

your love story all deserve a seat at the table.

At Down the Aisle Carolina, we’re here for all of it — the classic touches, the unexpected twists, and especially the guy stuff. So grab a drink, pick a song, and show up with style. You’re not just along for the ride; you’re half the reason this party’s even happening!

Ready to get involved (without getting overwhelmed)? Follow us on Instagram @downtheaislecarolina or check out our vendor list for groom-approved services that make the planning easy, personal, and a whole lotta fun.